Sensible persuasion

Its a gud habit for u to correct someone when they are faltering.

Certain things change about people over time. And if u r a regular company to that person, it wud do well for u to appreciate his better action and remind him about the better way, in a way as if he himself is taking it.

An example of comparisions between good and the better, works better than that given in the light of good and bad.

Like : if a friend is taken to smoking and u wud want him to lead a healthier life … say things like “i know u urself dont like to smoke and give up the habit, and im sure u’ll do that in future”, instead of “smoking is bad for u, u’ll end up in hospital ..!!”.

Also get the guy into conversation regarding this instead of just “i’ll say all and u just listen” sort of statements, produce reasoned pronouncements.

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